Elissa a Michigan State University Alumni had joined an online dating service searching for her significant other. One invivdual she had an encounter over the internet with was not so successful in his attempt to charm. His screen name was Craig and he had a very poor choice of vocabulary. He had multiple spelling errors and inncorrect usage of grammer in his sentences. Elissa was not turned on by his words so she had deny Craig. Craig on the other hand might of been indenial, but a man's words go a long way with a women. So to help a guy out Elissa gave out her vovcab strategy to help all those lame game fellas for a success with the ladies. She said to go over every you have written before submitting the messages. Then go back and correct the errors like mispelled words,puncuation marks,etc.This is very imperative because one small mistake can lead to a denial. This strategy she believes will help keep the juices flowing for the guys.what Elissa is saying is that looks don't mean anything without any word play.
As for me i have no problems in this area. In my dialect i speak very eloquently, but just enough to let her know i have a high vovcab. I can be poetic and political at the same time. It's even better when you have a sense of humor and i happen to be very humurous. It can be boring when a guy is too serious, but what i also notice that women don't like guys who are too humurous. There are times when i got alittle discouraged in a conversation with a female because all i kept thinking about is the facial expressions she was making when we were talking. Some females can be challenging like that, but i managed fairly well through the time we had. That was when i was in my early teens. Now i am more confident, but not arrogant and do a lot better than most guys in their 30's and 40's.
Listen. Take my advice.It is better to be yorself than try to do what your friend does when approachin a female. What worked for your friend might not work for you. That's the problem with guys today they all use the same lines or get pick up lines from a book or off the internet. How pathetic is that! They have reality shows on T.V. where guys pay antother guy to help them with pick up lines while their on the date. What that tells me is that you did not really earn the girl , but the guy you took advice from did. Use your own knowledge. If it's not meant for you to have that female then they're plenty more in the universe to go around. The bucket doesn't stop there. Someone will be turned on by you. If she can't except you for who you are then it ain't ment to be. So many guys put themeselves through changes for someone who doesn't care about them. It ain't worth it. Just be you, but be confident about being you. Don't let one bad date stop you because if one door closes surely another one will open.
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